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Monday, January 8, 2018

Archbishop Eamon Martin, Primate of Ireland, Said Abortion is Wrong in All Cases Including Rape, My Response- Conscience, Compassion and Vasectomy Sunday by Bridget Mary Meehan ARCWP

https://www.her.ie/news/archbishop-questions-if-rape-victims-should-be-given-abortion-access-382727

My Response: The church's opposition to the morning after pill in cases of rape, in my view, is morally wrong, and the hierarchy's continued obstinate opposition to contraception is reprehensible when we know that is one of the best ways to prevent unwanted pregnancy. 

What is the most loving thing to do in a situation in which a woman has been brutally raped? 

There is a huge difference between the morning after pill and an abortion in the third trimester of a pregnancy. 

After prayerful reflection, supportive counseling, the bottom line is that this is an issue where the woman must follow her conscience. 

 This situation illustrates why the Catholic Church needs women priests.

In our international movement there are many mothers and grandmothers - deacons, priests, and bishops- who  know what a crisis pregnancy is all about. They would be compassionate companions to walk with women in this devastating situation.   They'd  promote responsible birth control and the primacy of conscience in these kinds of crises. 

When is the Catholic male clergy going to promote vasectomies for men in their Sunday homilies? Really, I have never heard a sermon on male responsibility for unwanted pregnancies!

Bridget Mary Meehan ARCWP, www.arcwp.org


Archbishop Martin was asked if he believed rape victims should be denied the morning after pill and abortion access.
"A woman who has been raped has suffered the most horrendous crime. A terrible violence on her body. I'm not sure doing further violence by taking away the innocent child's life...I don't feel that is the answer. We can't deceive her into thinking that this can all suddenly be taken away by taking away the life of her...child."
Sexual Violence Cork, a support service for rape victims, said that to deny a rape victim her right to bodily autonomy would compound the trauma she had already experienced.
A spokesperson for the charity said,
"We are of the view that a woman or girl should have the right to choose, irrespective of the circumstances of the pregnancy. To deny their right to choose - whatever that choice is -  to deny that choice to women and girls whose autonomy and body integrity has already been ripped from them, is exponentially inhumane."
The spokesperson for Sexual Violence Cork also said that the Archbishop's comments were particularly galling given how many rape victims were imprisoned in Magdelene laundries, which were run by the Catholic Church and of which there are still millions in outstanding redress payments owed by the Church to victims.
"Maybe we have not been listening very well, maybe he has said it, but we would ask that he instruct his flock not to rape women and girls in the first instance."
When asked to respond to the pain of women affected by unwanted pregnancies the Archbishop agreed there was pain and suffering but said that the answer was not to tell women that their pain could be "taken away easily or quickly".
He stated:
 "what women need, what girls need in these situations is they need time, they need compassion, and compassion is really to journey with them, to suffer with them, to feel their pain, to help them in their pain..."
He also said that the clergy is keen to accompany women through the pregnancy.
"It's something that we're with you in and we want to walk with you through this..."
Asked about families with a diagnosis of a Fatal Foetal Abnormality Archbishop Martin said that  "we have to keep reminding ourselves that there are two lives, and we need to love them both, we need to protect them both."
The Director of Terminations For Medical Reasons (TFMR) Claire Cullen - Delsol said that the Archbishop's comments are offensive to women.
"The Archbishop asserts that without the 8th Amendment, the unborn child will be left defenceless. This implies he has no faith in the women and mothers of Ireland to protect their children. Women do not continue pregnancies just because the law prohibits ending them. Without a constitutional Amendment equating women to embryos women will still choose to become pregnant and have children. To imply we need to be legally constrained in our choices is insulting and misguided."
"The 8th Amendment has put women's health & lives in jeopardy & has contributed to a situation where heartbroken families are forced to travel to prevent pain & suffering of their loved, wanted children."
Ms Cullen - Delsol stated that TFMR members have had very positive experiences with local priests.
"Our experience with members of the clergy on the ground, in our communities has been of overwhelming compassion, understanding and care."
Ms Cullen - Delsol feels that the Archbishop is out of touch with how progressive most Catholics in Ireland are.
"The majority of Catholics use contraception, support equal marriage and divorce, and know that Catholicism is a choice for an individual, not something that should be enforced on a population or state."

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