Patriarchy is an unrelenting crucifixion
of women and girls worldwide. Females are at constant risk of masculine
violence and bloodshed. Women and girls are never fully free of this pressure
upon the psyche.
How many of us assess the danger of merely
walking alone at night, even in our own neighborhoods, regardless of our age,
race, class, ethnicity? The pornographic male gaze locks females in a lens of
control and degradation, seeing her as less than human, certainly not as Imago
Dei, and never as Imago Christi.
Religious men can be among the worst
offenders.
The streets of Louisville and all of
Kentucky see the highest rate of stalking in the US. How many girls and women
near us are living in terror right now? Untold numbers of men spend money to
rape trafficked girls in Louisville hotels every day.
We don’t have enough shelter space for
battered women and children. Our college campuses are a hunting ground for male
sexual predators. The United Nations tells us that women who defend women’s
human rights are at increased risk worldwide for rape and murder.
Mary of Nazareth, poor, pregnant, and
unwed was at risk for masculine violence and bloodshed. In a patriarchal
context she proclaimed the Magnificat, a song of resistance about her
liberating God undoing the oppressors and freeing the victims. It is the
longest passage spoken by a woman in the New Testament yet patriarchal
Christianity still perpetuates the fiction of Mary’s passivity under an
almighty father god.
Julian of Norwich
called Jesus,
“Mother Jesus.” While dying on the cross,
Mother Jesus gazes into the eyes of the woman prophet who birthed him, fed him,
and taught him. Mary in turn, gazes into her son’s eyes, seeing the gentle man
and healer who held so many suffering ones at his breast. In the throes of
trauma, they hold their tender gaze of love.
Let us be drawn by
Divine Gentleness into the heart of this Mother-Child gaze of love. May their
sacred gaze be our liminal space, our dwelling place of human dignity and
transformation. The dawn is near when God our Mother will undo the violence and
bloodshed and raise us out of darkness.
Reflection written by Rev. Mary Sue
Barnett, ARCWP
Founder, Louisville Coalition for CEDAW
Reflection read with Natalie Pope
Cindy Starr tied a teal scarf on the cross
(Teal is the color for Sexual Assault Awareness & Prevention Month)
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